Saturday, December 19, 2009

Confidence and Identity

I just finished watching the Cowboys epic 24-17 victory over the previously undefeated Saints (how ‘bout them Cowboys!), in which the Cowboys managed to overcome Nick Folk missing another field goal of less than 20 yards (he’s missed 7 of his last 11 kicks). And then I went to YouTube to remind myself of the good ol’ days, aka 2007, and found this gem…

How can somebody who, as a rookie, made a game winning 52 yard field goal—twice—not even be able to make much shorter field goals when the game isn’t on the line? Furthermore, judging by NFL Network’s “exclusive practice footage,” he can’t seem to make them in warm-up under no pressure at all. It’s clear that his confidence has been shaken, but has his identity changed as well? To Cowboys fans such as myself, it definitely has. He has completed the transition from “awesome kicker” to “liability” in a mere 2 years. And I’m not alone in my frustrations. Immediately after Folk missed his 35 yard field goal, 5 of my friends from Texas updated their statuses to express their discontent. Thus, it appears that his identity has changed socially. But internally, has it changed? I would imagine that he doesn’t hold himself in as high esteem as he used to, but has identity really changed as a result of his job performance? My strictly intuitive hypothesis would be that his identity remains unchanged, but that, sans confidence, his expression of this identity is greatly altered.

39 comments:

  1. 「不可能」這個字詞,在聰明人的字典中是找不到的。........................................

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  2. 以簡單的行為愉悅他人的心靈,勝過千人低頭禱告........................................

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  6. 如果成為一支火柴,也要點亮一個短暫的宇宙;如果是一隻烏鴉,也要叫疼閉塞的耳膜。.................................................................

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  7. 如果相遇.你會感到相知.那麼.有一種習慣叫做陪伴;如果陪伴.你會感到珍惜.那麼.有一種甜蜜叫做存在!..................................................................

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  8. 馬丁路德:「即使知道明天世界即將毀滅,我仍願在今天種下一棵小樹。」............................................................

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  9. 生存乃是不斷地在內心與靈魂交戰;寫作是坐著審判自己。............................................................

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  10. 在莫非定律中有項笨蛋定律:「一個組織中的笨蛋,恆大於等於三分之二。」..................................................

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  11. 在莫非定律中有項笨蛋定律:「一個組織中的笨蛋,恆大於等於三分之二。」..................................................

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